You may not be able to influence, where you are born, who your parents are and the kind of teen life you will have but that is where it stops.
The rest of your life is in your hands, even if your name doesn’t suit you, you can change it, the bottom line is, the most part of your life is in your hands.
No one would take the blame for your shortcomings but you. Your life is in your hands, live it right!