Gaming You

He is gaming you if…
…He tells you to keep the relationship secret ‘cos no one needs to know for now.
…He can’t disclose his source of income to you, ‘cos he likes to keep his job separate from his relationship
…All he asks for is sex anytime you are alone, ‘cos he thinks you are irresistible.
…He never talks of the future nor does he want to know what your plans are.
…He dodges every opportunity to meet your family claiming it is too early and you need to take things slow.
…He is giving you all you want with no questions asked nor cautioning.
…He guard his phone like his life would end if any other person touches it.

She is gaming you if…
…She keeps ending her calls when you are around or picks it and start giving the yes…no…yes response.
…She is keeping you away from her friends and family, telling you not just yet.
…She doesn’t advise you to save and plan for the future
…She has so many uncles that can not be accounted for on her family tree
…She sees nothing bad in you keeping late night, drinking and living fast life.
…She is spending more money than she is earning and travels so much just to do nothing.

These facts are not absolute but like the hands on the wall, they have something to write. Be careful!