3 Traits That Assures Success; You must have one!
So be sure when you step, Step with care and great tact. And remember that life’s A Great Balancing Act. And will you succeed? Yes! You will, indeed! (98 and ¾ percent guaranteed) Kid, you’ll move mountains… Dr. Seuss
Success is not something out of the ordinary, not some fairy tale we say or hear to give us hope, success is real. Some define it in terms of achievements, money, wealth, freedom, happiness, fame or even love.
Bessie Anderson Stanley expressed success in terms of the following achievements;
He who has lived well, laughed often, and loved much;
Who has enjoyed the trust of pure women, the respect of intelligent men and the love of little children;
Who has filled his niche and accomplished his task;
Who has never lacked appreciation of Earth’s beauty or failed to express it;
Who has left the world better than he found it,
Whether an improved poppy, a perfect poem, or a rescued soul;
Who has always looked for the best in others and given them the best he had;
Whose life was an inspiration;
Whose memory a benediction.
With the above in mind, it is easy to have what you seek in terms of success in the clear perspective. Now how do you get there, how will the word “eureka” be heard from you. You need at least one of these traits I am about to discuss. All successful people I know have one of these three (3) traits. I will explain what each entails and the laws that back them.
👆Inviting Personality: To be successful you must have an inviting personality. This includes any of these qualities, having good looks; beautiful or handsome, having nice attitude, being approachable, you must be reasonable and understanding or above all you must have a dissolving smile handy at all times. People with this trait easily get away with things, people tend to want to listen to what they have to say, they easily get favours and most importantly, doors have a way of opening for them. You might have noticed this about yourself or your friends with this trait, it is no magic, Just law of attraction at work.
✌Wit: Well if you missed out on the first trait, here is another that can make you successful. The qualities here include, you being witty, that is, smart, intelligent, wise, inquisitive, able to think outside the box, clever, humorous, talented or industrious. Wit is not limited to academic brilliance, you must know that being street-wise, being able to manipulate, cajole or warm your way into people’s heart is also witty. People with this trait may find it hard at first but once they are in, nothing can stop them. People with this trait actually work for what they get from life. This is the aspect most motivational books focus on because this is where most people fall. However for those who are lucky enough to have Inviting Personality and Wit traits at the same time, things fall in place easy and fast for them. This is based on the law of problems & solutions or cause & effect, if you can solve a problem, people will be willing to pay to have your services.
👌 Supernatural: if you don’t have the first two, here is your last chance. The good thing about this last trait is that it is something you can learn; not in born, you can build it over time. The supernatural trait includes being prayerful, going into religious ministry, providing spiritual solutions or seeking spiritual help. Most people, even with the first two traits, result to this because of their “laid back attitude”. People want God to assist them without them lifting a finger, well it is a known fact that this has worked for few, it is called breakthrough. Some take it a step further by setting up their own religious ministry to help others and from there they become successful too, it works! Pastors are rich, Alfas are wealthy, supernatural sells, spirituality changes the natural order to favour the devoted but at the cost of being faithful to God or the spiritual source. This is the supernatural law; faith and hope make miracles of life’s situations.
If you don’t have the first two and you are not willing to acquire the third trait, you might just be another man chasing his own shadow and success might just be another illusion or a tale of what should have been.