The expectations are so much, there are so many people we don’t want to disappoint.
“Silent promises”, we have all made them, vows to repay people who have invested in us; parents, guardian, friends, family they all assisted at one point or the other and deep down we want to say thank you.
Be a part of something big, watch the relationship talk show, The TYs Show, with Ty and Ty on SelahTv. Click to join
This is putting pressure on us, to try, to give our best, to see things workout but… Some times we have to understand success is not overnight.
The fruits we see yearly on trees was not what was achieved in one year but the years of gradual growth from seed till when it became a tree.
Baby steps, one before the other, inch by inch, we make progress. The consciousness that we are not where we used to be.
The changes might be marginal but you became better, from someone who needs people for daily bread to someone who owns things.
Be thankful for what you have achieved, don’t lose focus of what your dreams are, channel all your efforts to making it big because you have no excuse not to.
Don’t rush the process but make use on the catalysts you find along your way to make the struggle less stressful. Ride on shoulders, don’t be too arrogant to ask for help and never forget to remain loyal to the human ladders that got you this far.
People will betray you, it is just human to become jealous of success. Nonetheless, don’t be vengeful.
Remember, you are taking baby steps, you stagger, you stumble, you fall, you learn, you stand up then you try again. In the end with each experience, you get better.
No one starts climbing the ladder from the top, it has to be from the base. Be prepared to learn to walk and most time stumble, till you become smarter, faster and more purposeful.
You can now talk to me directly on WhatsApp. You can ask questions, seek advice, counseling and/or share thoughts.