SEX AND FEELINGS
By Dayo Amusa
A man can have sex with a lady and still don’t have any feelings for her, men only need space to have sex but women need reason to have sex. A woman cannot have sex without feelings except sex workers.
A man can travel for eight hours just to have sex with a female friend and yet, not love her. Sex makes men act as if they are in love while they are not. The eight hours travel sacrifice, gifts bought, hotel paid for and other expenses may seem to be coming from true love but they were all in the
sacrifice for sex and nothing more.
The foolish thing is this, the majority of women would jump up (at) them and conclude that this is the art of true love. Sex is not an act of commitment. Men will leave the
women they sleep with on (the) bed and start thinking of the next woman to sleep with. The satisfaction that comes from sex dies in minutes (after the deed is done).
It is in the nature of Lions to go miles to hunt. The same with men. A man who can afford the expenses of flying from the UK to Nigeria for sex would do it as if he would never turn to another woman for sex. Sex drives men to do what seems like the impossible and such turns women around and they start acting weird.
Sex and love are not on the same page even in the dictionary. People can abandon their gold mines and dig the(ir) grave(s) for sex. Most young men do terrible things just to have the resources to keep many girls in their life. You may think they are working hard to live well in the future but they are just living for fun and that is all.
Students are now living together like husbands and wives, and our society calls it love. What kind of people do these students become when they leave school? This is why we have a lot of frustrated graduates than nation-building graduates.
Today, a 16-year-old girl is already into sex. She wants to wear everything on trend. She is already a “prostitute” in the sense that any man that comes her way for relationship must show some signs of money and she would respond to him (as if she was trading sex for gifts and money). The funny thing is this, almost all those girls that have become sex symbols end up in a deep mess.
– Dayo Amusa (Nollywood Actress and Entrepreneur)
Sex and feelings are never the same thing, not for a man and often times not for women. It would be wrong to define your love based on how much someone is willing to give, I will rather have you value love based on how much someone is willing to lose just to keep you.
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