She said, she sees other ladies driving luxurious cars, shopping abroad, hanging with big guys and living the life, yet they can’t point to any hustle or job that fetches them money. She said, some times she just wants to abandon her business all together and ask these ladies to show her the way.
How can I have fun when I am living my life for others? Firstly, living a life of impact is not the same as living for others.
There are many names people would want to call you; fool, failure, loser, incompetent… it is their right to talk and may be have opinion but what matters most is what you think of yourself and the name you choose to answer to.
Let no one tell you, you pray too much, or that a particular situation doesn’t require prayers. Every situation does, whether it is science, legal, business, medicals, sports, politics, competitions whatever drives your situation would always and forever respond to prayers.
Your effort matters but what matters most is the kind of people your efforts appeal to. Think about it
The fact that we want something doesn’t mean we need that thing. There will be pressure mounting from different quarters and people projecting different ideas and semblance of eldorado but always take your time to make that choice. When an immediate need is satisfied at the right time, within the right capabilities, every other things would fall in place.
In the pursuit of better living, improved earnings and dream actualization, you have to make all your resources work for you and that includes your contacts.
Asides these compromises and changes, the main problem our dreams face is our attitude to life.
I have met people who told me point blank “I just don’t like you”, and obviously trying to deliberately change their disposition would be a total waste of time and resources.
The truth is nobody owes you, so stop living a lie, stop feeling entitled; your uncle, your brother, your old friends, they can help if they want to but it is not your right to get help from them, so if they don’t, you can’t hold it against them. You would have to help yourself