At a point, you would realize that to live for yourself is to make more enemies. People align with you if they are either gaining something from you or able to manipulate you for their own gains.
Parents that shout down their kids, bully them in the name of correcting them and don’t allow their kids to speak freely would end up with children with low self-esteem.
People are naturally selfish (that includes you and I) and primarily watch out for themselves first before anyone. This isn’t an excuse to hate people rather
There are some things we obviously can’t change immediately, often in the interim we would have to accept them.
She said, she sees other ladies driving luxurious cars, shopping abroad, hanging with big guys and living the life, yet they can’t point to any hustle or job that fetches them money. She said, some times she just wants to abandon her business all together and ask these ladies to show her the way.
So, I asked myself, Oluwatoyin, why are you chasing shadows when God is the one that holds your life?
How can I have fun when I am living my life for others? Firstly, living a life of impact is not the same as living for others.
Life does not have a universal measuring tool; so create yours and use it. Looking at people and comparing yourself with them will not make you better but bitter.
There are many names people would want to call you; fool, failure, loser, incompetent… it is their right to talk and may be have opinion but what matters most is what you think of yourself and the name you choose to answer to.
Let no one tell you, you pray too much, or that a particular situation doesn’t require prayers. Every situation does, whether it is science, legal, business, medicals, sports, politics, competitions whatever drives your situation would always and forever respond to prayers.