Your effort matters but what matters most is the kind of people your efforts appeal to. Think about it
The fact that we want something doesn’t mean we need that thing. There will be pressure mounting from different quarters and people projecting different ideas and semblance of eldorado but always take your time to make that choice. When an immediate need is satisfied at the right time, within the right capabilities, every other things would fall in place.
There is no cure for viruses, of which Covid19 is one, so we have two options, asides from avoiding catching it, 1. Either
In the pursuit of better living, improved earnings and dream actualization, you have to make all your resources work for you and that includes your contacts.
Asides these compromises and changes, the main problem our dreams face is our attitude to life.
I have met people who told me point blank “I just don’t like you”, and obviously trying to deliberately change their disposition would be a total waste of time and resources.
The truth is nobody owes you, so stop living a lie, stop feeling entitled; your uncle, your brother, your old friends, they can help if they want to but it is not your right to get help from them, so if they don’t, you can’t hold it against them. You would have to help yourself
It is not an easy way out, it is like putting all those who care about you through the sword. It is mean and the lowest anyone can go
As phony as some of us (motivational speakers) sound, the truth is there are living testimonies of how people have moved from nothing to something by simply believing.
Don’t be afraid of how you see life, it is your eyes and only you best understand the lessons you have learned so far. Keep being true to yourself and