In other words, getting closer to God through Christ to be rich is just like going to school so you can be rich, one is not necessary a prerequisite of the other. You can be rich without God, just as you can be rich without going to school, examples of these abound.
Giving a man your body doesn't make him indebted to you. Sex is 95% passion to a lady but 95% fun to a man. Sex is never a yardstick to measure love.