Layback attitude won't get anyone anywhere, don't self destruct because you don't want to go the extra mile. There is a lot at stake, wishing it won't cut it, you will have to work it.
most people are also struggling with things they would rather not talk about yet they wear the smile of 'all is well'.
Daphne Rose kingma said “Holding on is believing that there is only a past; letting go is a knowing that there is a future”
Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they?