Trying to erase it will make more people know about your mess, and the stigma is for life.
Passing judgement is easy anyone can do that but it takes compassion to understand while only the wise ones remember to live the lessons!
In the end, we are responsible for how things turn out for us. Not the gods neither is it the unseen spirits, not fate neither is it destiny, it is simply the cumulation of all the choices we have made; one choice after another!
Widen your horizon and test new waters, what you desire is just at the other side but you have to take that leap of faith. - Selah
Remember, knowledge in itself does not confer power