You can judge me as much as you like, that also makes you human, we put to sword when we can't ration the whys and the whats. I would be surprised if you had done otherwise. However, sins are sins, no double standard before God, because mine seems more grievous to you doesn't make yours less grievous to someone else.
Nobody is perfect! Each of us has our own unique flaws. We're all cracked pots, but can still be useful in our own way.
my point is, don't just wish for her success or envy her achievements, realize it was a process and she came through it.