Playing small doesn't change what people think of you. Living should never be about pleasing others. You first in everything you do.
So, everything done has its place on the sand of time and would amount to ones biography someday. - Oluwatosin
In the end, we are responsible for how things turn out for us. Not the gods neither is it the unseen spirits, not fate neither is it destiny, it is simply the cumulation of all the choices we have made; one choice after another!